Informal rules and norms play a significant role in shaping human interactions and relationships. Here’s why breaking informal rules can be particularly damaging:
Relationship Impact: Informal rules govern behavior, communication, and social expectations. When someone unknowingly breaks an informal rule, it can lead to misunderstandings, hurt feelings, and strained relationships. People may feel disrespected or offended, affecting trust and rapport.
Uncontrollable Actions (B): While formal rules can be explicitly stated and enforced, informal rules are often subtle and context-dependent. They emerge from cultural norms, shared experiences, and unwritten expectations. Informal actions are not easily controlled or predicted, making them more challenging to navigate.
Responsibility ©: Unlike formal rules with clear accountability, informal rules are often ambiguous. When a violation occurs, both parties may share responsibility. However, the lack of explicit guidelines can lead to confusion about who should take responsibility for the misunderstanding.
Embarrassment (D): Informal rules often involve social nuances, personal boundaries, and sensitive topics. When misunderstandings occur, individuals may feel embarrassed or hesitant to explain their reactions. This embarrassment can hinder open communication and resolution.
In summary, understanding and respecting informal rules are essential for effective cultural interactions. Breaking these rules can have lasting consequences on relationships and communication12.
References: 6. The ASQ Certified Manager of Quality/Organizational Excellence Handbook, Fifth Edition. 7. Furterer, S. L., & Wood, D. C. (2021). The ASQ Certified Manager of Quality/Organizational Excellence Handbook (5th ed.). ASQ Quality Press.12
